It is reasonable to assume that most men and women understand the crime of rape. It is also reasonable to assume that most
men and women may not have a clear understanding as to how criminals think, feel and respond, sexually, toward women. Hopefully,
the following will offer some (limited) scientific insight into this heinous and violent crime.
Doctor Stanton E. Samenow's book - Inside the Criminal Mind - offers certain reasons why criminals commit rape. '...As
Dr. Ann Burgess, a pioneer in research on rape victimization, pointed out, rape is "an act of aggression and violence, motivated
primarily by power or anger, rather than by sexuality." It is an attempt to subjugate another human being and offers a challenge
to get away with the forbidden. One criminal commented that if society legalized rape, he would have no interest in it.
The rapist does not necessarily hate women, nor is he sexually deprived. In fact, he may regularly have sex with a girlfriend
or spouse and still rape.
An analysis published in a Washington, D.C., newspaper recounted some of the current theories about rape. One is that
"these men are sadists and really seek to punish women." Another is that the rapist lacks self-esteem and believes that no
decent woman would have intercourse with him. A third theory is that rape is "a symbolic attack on the aggressor's own parents
- particularly the mother." People who rape are irresponsible in other ways and are likely to have committed other kinds
of crimes even though they may not have been caught for them.
Rape is just one expression of their attempt to dominate others, to seek excitement in the forbidden, and to build themselves
up. There is no attempt to punish women, nor does the offender believe that a nice woman wouldn't have sex with him. In
fact, he believes that he is irresistible to all women. At stake in a rape is the criminal's affirmation of his image of
himself as powerful and desirable. The assailant believes that his victim already wants him or will want him once she gives
him a chance. Her attempts to ward him off only heighten his excitement. Then he tries to reduce her to a quivering, pleading
speck of humanity and helps himself to what he believes was rightfully his from the start. Brute force is rarely necessary
because intimidation works.
Sex crimes may grow increasingly bizarre as the criminal searches for more and more excitement. Even rapes can grow
routine to a man who has committed scores of them. Such a person may become bolder and more sadistic, as in the case of a
young man who abducted a woman at knife point and dragged her off to an apartment where he tore of her clothes, lashed her
to a bed, paraded around naked, leering and cursing, masturbated until he ejaculated all over her, terrorized her for another
hour, and finally thrust himself upon her for intercourse. Does such a person hate his victim? Often he does not even know
her. Is he acting out of an unconscious, long-smoldering hatred against some other woman in his life, perhaps his mother?
One could always speculate this to be the case. But then what of the thousands of people who suffered rejecting and inconsistent
mothers, crueler than his, but who resolved their resentments differently?"
NOTE: No doubt certain women will disagree or may even be offended by the text obtained from Dr. Samenow's book. Please
remember, Ron Rice did not write the book, he is only quoting certain pages from this book that should be found in the library
of every student of human behavior.
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